Thursday, April 7, 2011

Why me?????????

I got one mail regarding in which one professor told his students…. You are going to start with a new life…. Your professional life… and I wanna tell you something important take it seriously and follow it “Don’t trust anybody” and there are three golden rules to succeed….

Rule#1- There are no friends at work place

Rule#2- There are no friends at workplace

Rule#3- Again there are no friends at workplace


Never forget these lines and all the best!


I agreed with that mail and I thought I will follow these lines…. And started with my office….. Of course there are many things we need to learn practically no matter how many times we read them….. And we truly learn them after we fall down….


And my recent learning was to recall all these 3 important rules….… Of course I am a human being its not a sin if I trust people and try to help them out by thinking that they might not be so bad and cruel….. by thinking that they are so like me…. New to this world of professionalism….. quite innocent to play dirty politics…. And I was wrong… I was not shocked but I was upset….. I was not shocked coz I’ve heard that it will happen…. I was upset coz I never thought this will actually happen….A year before same thing happened with me that time I thought may be I don’t deserve the credit but after a year I am again getting the same treatment and I still don’t know the reason why people whom you give so much respect,they do so much bad with you…


I have friends with work experience who share their professional life and politics in office…. And I never thought someday I’ll face it so practically…..

People might be happy living such life…. But I am not nor I wanna get used to it…. I can’t even abuse here huh… I have not seen such people in my life…. Hell man! So mean….Their every act..every step is selfish...This is not my world and i am dead sure!! I know myself I can do much better things in life... i gave myself time and now i have realized...

And in this world of professionalism I find that some people whom you thought are not trustable start giving importance to you and whom you trust just show their real face.. that’s why I sometimes laugh on myself.. Strange people and their strange thinking….. I still don’t know when an employee love his organization so much and give his heart and soul for his company.. then why the hell company never think about his employee and behave like this that he has to think about quitting or switching his job.. I just know one thing about me whenever I am in dilemma or confused….I just started writing.. I don’t know what I wrote but all the things which going through my mind I just scribble down on this piece of paper and feeling good now…

Anyways I learnt very important lesson that never trust your management as they will always backfire you….

Thanks God for teaching me such a good lesson.. It was a good learning… I’ll safeguard myself from the next time…..