Tuesday, August 10, 2010

TaLkInG......

TaLkiNg!!!!!!


HeLLooo… Hellooooo..$%23^@#%@#%@

Talking, as older generation people used to say, this is the thing which creates a disparity between human beings and animals. As people able to convey their thoughts but animal can’t that’s why our species are considered more superior than them.

As for writing you need words and thoughts same case is with talking, but in latter case you don’t have time to think because when you are talking then the person is standing in front of you so if you have to win the heart of a person then you should be the master of words.

Talking is one of the powerful tool which human being acquire, by the virtue of this tool he/she can make anyone laugh or cry, can make anyone happy or sad, can make anyone tranquil or fuming. Just use this tool correctly with little bit of understanding then you will be remembered as a person who knows how to talk and how to make others happy.

I always used to think, am I using this talking tool properly? Am I able to justify with this beautiful gift which God given to me? Am I really saying those things which I should have to say? And, really a very daunting answer I am getting from my inner self. My talking curve is stirring in a very zigzag way means sometimes I had used my tongue in a very proper way which makes other happy but sometimes it was used very harshly and for those moments my talking curve was on negative side.

Nevertheless with my experiences, I had learnt lot of things which I try to reflect when I talk to someone. As all your kith and kin remain close and happy with you if you used your talking senses properly with them otherwise people will started to create differences with you, if you are using your talks in unorganized manner. And, I can say that atleast I reached to certain level where I have started to feel that I am become the master in the art of words and can easily make others happy or can make them laugh with my foolish but humorous talks. To make a mockery of some person or its feelings is very easy but to make him/her realize that you were not wrong is a herculean task but I had done all the things with lot of success and really due to that sometimes I feel happy that atleast now a days I am making someone happy, making someone to understand my talks, making someone to realize his/her potential.

Lot of things to say but it’s very difficult to write, that’s why I feel talking is easy than writing:-).

Few words which I want to say again that “Try to make others happy by your talk”!!!!!!

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Friends are most important ingredient in this recipe of life!!!!!

Hello friends,

I am back with some new writing, as i written in my previous blog that i will be try to more active on this blog writing but my laziness try to keep me away from such a nice thing so as all are saying that friendship week is going so I thought chalo kuch dosto ke bare mein socha jaye who were somewhere part of my life in last 4 or 5 years.

As per my perceptive, there are some points which I want to say or sometimes want to share with somebody but at that moment I find myself in No Man's Land then I thought what is better way to express your inner thoughts in your writing that make you feel little bit lighter, when I will write my feelings on paper then nobody will argue over them and even paper or pen will not stop me.

If I look at the past or I can say a month back from till now, and try to analyze what I had done then sometimes I feel that I don’t reach to certain level of expectation which I had from myself but then somewhere in my mind a thought come up that more or less I start enjoying my work and I can set my goal and can work on them little bit harder.
Nevertheless, in my journey somehow I find people who always make me realize that I have a potential in me and if I work little bit harder then I can achieve what I think of and for that I really want to say thanks to God or in other words these people are my support pillars and they actually deserve this compliment.

All people have the blessings of their parent with them and with the help of their consent we able to achieve success in our life but when we add their blessing with the support we get from our loved ones then sometimes we able to achieve on which we never had thought.

For me the list of friends is so large or I can say the friend list is always long for each and every one but when I try to think or search for the people who supported me somewhere in my life then also I find this list little bit longer then what I expected and when I am talking about the support then I will try to make you clear that I am talking about the selfless support which they just want to give me so atleast I can do something good or fruitful.

If I will start with my college life then I really have some good or I can say best friends which supported me blindly and till now they are supporting me in my all bad or good works and always motivated me in doing things from nothing to everything.
And really I want to mention few names which supported me in my rough patches in college and which were also with me during my joyful moments. From pravesh to vishesh, shahid to eshant, ankit to sumit and few more which made my life lovable and exciting. Due to these idiots I got a tag of “kishan kanhaiya” in college but now I realize that how mean were those girls but that a part and parcel of life and still those moments bring smile to my face so I don’t have regret with my past life. Due to Shahid and eshant I able to get in TCS or able to pass my all sem exams, Pravesh and vishesh are always with me for joy and fun both have lot of similarities and then ankit and sumit who always give me good advices but that time I was blind because I was in love but now I realize that they were right and I was wrong as always.

As the college got over, after that I found a friend from somewhere in the heaven (because that type of friend I don’t think so we can get on this planet) with lot of great and great qualities and really I bow my head for her friendship, if I able to express somewhere in my life what is altruistic friendship then I will surely put her name. In 2 years of her divine friendship I got everything without asking anything and all the things were unexpected which I never dreamed of, from friendship video to my bday cake.

And in 2 years of my office life if I was try to figure out a name 2 months before from now then I had said that no one but in last 2 months I got a good friend who too supported me selflessly and Sachin thanks a lot for your genuineness apart from my office life in last 2 years I got in touch with lot of people but Rahul(ship boy) and Monika(school friend) who really deserve to be in this list and if I think of others then I feel that somewhere or other they are using me for their benefits or I am using them for my good.

In the mentioning of names somewhere I should be grateful to Sonal (choti ustad,my small bomb, my cute advisor, my frnd, meri behna), a girl who always give me timely and good advice and who will always be there for me that I know who were part of all the phases of my life may be its college time may be office time or may be vella sitting time:-)

In the end there were few names which are my very good friends(all from college) and this blog be worthy of their name from Amit to Preethi, Amit to Gaurav , Anand to Himanshu and last but not the least Ankur, Sujeet , Vivek, Prabhat, Puneet,Suraj and Raghu from all I learned atleast something good or bad things. And somewhere in my mind a name is revolving may be mentioning of her name is one of the most difficult thing for me in this blog but without the name of Ankita I really find this blog incomplete who taught me the lesson that if you express truly to someone then you will get kick on your ass from him/her.
With the happy note I should end this blog otherwise the starting lines that I wrote pen or paper will not stop you from writing but if I continue writing like this then surely they will say ab or nahi bas karo Ankur ji:-)

Try to be come soon with my new writing!!!!!
Till then bye byee alvidaa.. Me feeling sleepy now!!!!


Thanks for lot of your love and sweet memories!!!!!

P.S. Sorry friends if i had forget to mention your name but i tried to be truthful from my side.